Monday, 13 August 2018

Truth of Human Life & Relationships

Bhaja Govindham 3


Verse 5 & 6
yavadvittoparjana saktaḥ stavannija parivaro raktah |
pascajjivati jarjara dehe vartaṁ ko'pi na prcchati gehe || 5||
As long as one is fit and capable of making money, he gets the affection of his family members.  Afterwards, when he is old and sick, nobody even bothers to enquire his welfare.

yavatpavano nivasati dehe tavatprcchati kusalam gehe |
gatavati vayau dehapaye bharya bibhyati tasminkaye || 6 ||
When one is alive, his family members enquire kindly about his welfare.  When the soul departs and the body falls, even one’s wife is afraid of the corpse.

In these two verses Sri Sankara uses human experience in old age and at death to expose how empty and false the human relationship is, to pull one towards the spiritual goal.  In this process he holds a mirror to the facts of human life and realities of human relationships.  He is not pessimistic, only realistic looking at things straight in the eye.
As long as one earns, family, relatives, friends, etc. are there with him showing him all attention and affection.  When the same person gets old and is no longer capable of earning money, all those who surrounded him and showered affection and attention slowly desert him one by one as his savings depletes. As the physical and mental faculties deplete with advancing age people distance from him. Even son or daughter, brother or sister do not consult much less discuss when deciding family matters.  As the ‘utility factor’ wanes, so is the respect commanded.  This is is the fact of life which one should remember and steer the mind clear of attachments and expectations and strive to develop one’s spiritual assets through introspection, reflection and contemplation on the higher values of life.  This verse aims to help one to choose one’s priorities right, not allowing unnecessary concerns over people to dominate one’s decisions and allocating time towards his spiritual well-being as well.

The theme begun in the first verse is continued in the next verse with a graphic touch added to it, to drive home the same point with added emphasis in respect of one’s own body to which one is much more deeply attached.  So this verse tries to set the attitude to attachment of one’s own body in correct perspective as the previous verse tried to set the attitude of attachment to relations and people in proper perspective.  Knowing the limitations of the body will help one keep a healthy attitude to one’s body and turn the mind to everlasting principles, rather than concentrating on daily affairs only.  As long as the breath of life is there, people come and crowd around. The departure of prana (jiva) changes the whole scene. People want to get rid of the dead body as soon as possible.  Even wife is afraid of her husband's dead body, the body which gave her pleasure and pain in life; which shared her joys and sorrows.  So body does not have intrinsic worth of its own and it is the human life which is very precious. The human body is the container one has, to do Sadhana to realize God, and to that extent only one is to be preoccupied with the body and keep the mind free to pursue self-knowledge.
In this verse delusion arising from overestimation of body is discussed and in the previous verse delusion caused by overestimation of relationships was analysed.  The reason why Sri Sankara is harsh in his words for things which hold back most people from pursuing the spiritual path more seriously is explained in the next verse, where he narrates the fact of man’s journey of life.

Verse 7
balastavatkridasaktah tarunastavattarunisaktah |
vrddhastavaccintasaktah parame brahmani ko'pi na saktah || 7 || 
As a child, one is absorbed in play. As a young man, one is attached to women (lost in women).  As an old man, one is lost in worrying thoughts.  Alas! No one is attracted to the Supreme Brahman, God.

Sri Sankara portrays in this verse the truth about man’s journey of life and laments that one at all times is immersed in worldly pursuits, but at no time is interested in realizing God.  As a child, one is immersed in play and games without a worry of the world. The play in childhood gives way to lust in the youth.  One’s main aim now is to attract the opposite sex and enjoy their company.  As one gets older, one worries about  the things wrongly done and things left undone on the material side in past life and also about one’s relatives, one’s children  and  their children and also about one’s present physical and mental drawbacks.  One hardly pauses to think about God or reflect about a spiritual goal in life at any time in one’s life.  If at any time spiritual thoughts arise in younger days, it gets postponed to the old age or to the days after retirement from active life. The problem here is one does not know how long one will live. Secondly even if one survives to old age, being immersed in materialism all through, the material vasanas become so dominating that to switch over to a spiritual life becomes well nigh impossible.  Sri Sankara’s aim in pointing out this is to make one resolve immediately to bring God into one’s life and slowly  increase gradually the time and attention for God so that as one gets older one will be able to detach oneself easily from mental ties and physical relationships and turn attention completely Godward, which is possible only in human life.
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